reflectionz

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

OK so I know it takes a while for me to put up a new post but i'm trying to work on it. And also thanks to those who left comments on ma past blogs I promise to put up replies real soon. I’ve been thinking bout what next to write bout and I jus don’t know where to start from. So I guess I have to take it one step at a time.

I meet him at a family friend’s house; I can’t say it was love at first sight cos to me he was jus any regular dude. I was more interested in the latest song I had just heard "the boy is mine- brandy and Monica" I was so tripped by the song that my friend and I decided to role play it. (Hey we were young and immature)

he walked into the room and caught us role playing our song, all he could do was laugh because we were messing the words up, then:


Mr. Slick: hahahahha, you guys are too funny. Well I have the tape in my car

(Whoa you can only imagine what that did to me, you actually have the tape)

Me and F.f: Can we have it..... Can we have it?


Of course he was more than happy to let us have it, he rushed to the car brought it for us, we took a pen and paper and started to write down the lyrics (lol damnn I don’t believe I did that)
After we were done he had to leave. Soon as he left ma friends brother told me that "Mr. Slick" wanted to date me.
I was not sure how I felt bout him at this point, well his brother and ma sister quickly kicked it off, so we started taking trips over to their house, when we got there his brother and ma sister would leave both of us to "catch up". We would disappear to the other living room and go play some video games, and being that I am a video game freak it was all right with me as time progressed his feeling became stronger for me and I started to discover feelings that I had for him.
so one day we all decided that we wanted to go out and buy suya, we bought the suya came back home to settle to eat the suya as we got home jus bout to dive into the suya the neighbour hood boys decided to pop in for a visit, then one of the neighbourhood guys saw me apparently he liked me and approached "Mr. slick" bout it..... Mr. Slick told him to back off cos that was his runs.
That day Mr. Slick decided to ask me out... now I was not aware of what was going on all I knew was Mr. Slick ... the guy I wanted to be with jus asked me out... DAMNNN!!!!!!! I was sooooo excited. Neways so after fronting for a couple days I said yes.

Well we dated for a little while... bout 6 months, that was my first real relationship. We were so young and innocent.... all we did was play games and cuddle... (Aka Quaving) lol...... what did I know... i was only bout 13, with big boobs, so he had enuf to caress (lol). Well.... as they ay every good thing comes to an end. we broke up after 6 months, but it was not something I really wanted to do, was more like something I had to do cos we were both so busy with school.... couple months after we broke up his brother had a b-day party and he had couple people come ova so we went for the party, as soon as MR. slick and I meet again it was the same way it had been since we were dating, he held ma hand thru the whole party didn’t want me dancing with no guys. Mean while the other guy that liked me at first site was now trying to talk to me cos he discovered that we had broken up. But Mr. Slick was not having it at all..... The whole night he held ma hand and made me stick with him.

Well bout 3 months later we left Nigeria. Just before we left Mr. Slick and I were trying to get back on track, but I never told him that we were moving to Canada. The day I was leaving I spoke to him that nite, well so I left without telling him. When I got to Canada I left him know as soon as we got in, he was so upset but I told him I was so sorry, well he kind of let it go I guess that was cos I was a couple oceans away from him. Well a couple weeks later he came online telling me that he moving to Canada

DAMNNNNN!!!!!!!! I WAS MADD EXCITED..... NEVER BEEN HAPPIER, I WAS TOO HAPPY!!

TO MY SELF: MAYBE WE WILL BE ALBE TO PICK UP WHERE WE LEFT OFF



Well…. About 4 years later he still wasn’t in Canada I was already starting to give up on him coming here, I think he was even starting to give up on it too. About a year later his mum calls up my mother and they were making all this plans for their arrival. A year later he was in Canada, at first it was interesting trying to catch up on missed out events but at this point I was talking to another guy, and well he was not ready for any relationships according to him he was to be a free lancer, He’s just enjoying life as it comes.

Wednesday, October 18, 2006

well to finish up the story of "curious teen"
my mum beat the heck outta me she got so mad at me... i guess for being out so late and also the fact that i was in the BQ.

she flipped out on the "house boy" and obviously she grounded me. after dat the HB kept away from me didnt wanna talk to me no more, and well ma new boyfriend broke up with me that same day. so i guess he really was ma boyfriend for jus one day, lmao.

Friday, October 06, 2006

Curious Teen


i always thought i was a mad curious teenager.... well till this day im still very curious.. love adventures..... outta all ma sibilings i was the quiet one o the outside but really ma mind was full of mischief, always getting ma self involved in some kinda of trouble... and damnnn wheneva i got caught i was DEALT WITH serverly by my loving mother

so one day.... bak in lagos i was in ma teens living in an apartment with my family. i had a neighbour some guy that i thought was mad cute and me being the curious chick i am i was eager to get to know him, and being dat i was a hot chick(still am a hot chick) with an innocent look he was equally interested in knowing/devouring me.

so we got to talking .. come to find out he liked me and i was feelin him to,i was his girl and he was ma man. we decided to organize a day to meet, with the help of the house boy we came up with wat we thought was a solid plan to meet at the boys quarters(aka.house helps room) at a certain time.

on this day my mother came bak from work at her usual time, now i had been watchin her moves for some time so i was quiet used to her regular routine which was to have dinner with the family and then she would go to her room and call it a night. we had decided dat when she gets to her room i would sneek out and come meet him in the BQ. Things were goin according to plan, i went to the meeting spot where he was waiting for me we hugged he told me i was cute and that he liked me, he held ma hand, and started to kiss me, he even fundled with ma boobs a little. He wanted to go the whole nine yards, but i just was not ready for dat. he was quiet understanding and he didnt push.

at this time i was already gone from the house for more dan 45 mins, my mother started to notice ma absence, so she called on the next person closest to me (my sister) and asked her where i was, she was not too sure how to cover 4 me being dat i had already been gone past the time limit dat she gave me so she spilled. at this time i had finished ma romance section and was heading bak into the house while ma mother was stormin through the front door about to take off ma head.